The Family Closet That Transformed Our Laundry Management

February 15, 2026

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When my husband Bryan and I first came across the idea of a family closet—one dedicated space where laundry is washed, dried, folded, ironed if needed, and hung right back up—we looked at each other and knew it was exactly what we needed.

The mental picture was irresistible: no more baskets of clean clothes migrating from room to room, no more toddlers gleefully dumping out drawer after drawer of carefully folded clothing, no more small mountains of unfolded laundry claiming the dining room table for hours. Everything would have a proper home, right where the work actually happens.

There was just one problem: our house at the time didn’t have the layout to make it possible. We sketched ideas, measured walls, and brainstormed workarounds, but the math simply never added up. So the dream stayed on our wish list.

Then came our move to Missionary Acres.

When we settled into Lot 1 on the property, the family-closet idea resurfaced with fresh hope. We walked the utility room, measuring again… but once more, space was the limiting factor since the laundry room was also a hallway. We adapted, made do with the systems we had, and leaned hard into gratitude for what had been provided.

A couple of years later, everything changed when we moved into Lot #70—a larger, two-story home. One unexpected feature stopped us in our tracks: an entire room with washer and dryer hookups that the previous resident had used for fixing clocks and watches.

We stood in the doorway, looked at each other again, and this time the words were different: “We can finally do this.”

And we did.

What used to feel like a never-ending loop of laundry chaos has become one of the smoothest parts of our day. The room now houses our washer and dryer, a big central folding table that actually gets used, dedicated hampers, hanging rods at different heights for the little kids and the bigger ones, a laundry sink ready for those inevitable potty-training surprises, an ironing board that stays set up and accessible, our sewing machine for quick mends, and even a donation basket that keeps outgrown or torn clothes moving on instead of piling up.

This space has made a real difference in how we manage laundry for our large family.

In the rest of this post, I’ll take you on a little picture tour of our family closet so you can see exactly how each piece works for our big, busy household and why we’re so thankful for this space.

A Quick Overview of Our Family Closet

If you stand in the doorway and look in, this is what our family closet looks like right now—and honestly, it’s not magazine-perfect, and that’s exactly why it works so well for us.

This space started as an unfinished basement room: bare concrete floor, exposed pipes overhead, no finished ceiling, the whole utilitarian vibe. The previous owner used it for fixing clocks and watches, so it came with zero built-ins or pretty finishes. We didn’t change that. We didn’t add drywall, fancy flooring, or recessed lighting. Instead, we rolled up our sleeves and made it work with what was already there—because for a busy household of fourteen, function beats polish every single time.

A few things to note about this space:

It’s fully unfinished (concrete floors, visible pipes, open ceiling joists)—and we love it that way. No worries about spills, tracked-in dirt, or little hands making “improvements.”
It’s a real working space, which means it’s rarely picture-perfect clean. There’s usually a load in the dryer, a few items waiting to be folded, or a stray sock on the floor—and that’s okay. It gets the job done.
It has a door that shuts completely, which has been a lifesaver for keeping curious toddlers out when we’re not supervising.

The beauty of this setup is that it proves you don’t need a Pinterest-worthy, fully renovated room to create an effective family closet. You just need a dedicated spot near the laundry flow, some basic organization, and the willingness to embrace “good enough.” We took an overlooked, rough-around-the-edges basement room and turned it into the heart of our laundry routine—and it’s been one of the best decisions we’ve made since moving to Lot #70.

My Number 1 Laundry Management Tip

Before we zoom in on the details of our family closet, I have to share my single most important tip for keeping laundry manageable—especially with a family of 14.

This one has held true in every home we’ve lived in, from tiny setups to this unfinished basement room. It doesn’t require special tools, perfect organization, or even a dedicated family closet.

Ready? Here it is:

Do the laundry.

Seriously—that’s it!

Put a load in the washer. Move it to the dryer before it sits too long and starts to mildew. Fold (or hang) it, put it away, and repeat as often as needed. With a family our size, we repeat a lot, doing anywhere from 4-7 loads a day.

No beautiful hanging rods, no hamper system, no dedicated space will ever eliminate this basic step. Laundry only stays under control when you actually do it consistently.

Our family closet doesn’t do the work for us—it just makes doing the work so much easier and less chaotic. Everything’s right there in one spot: no trekking baskets upstairs, no losing items in bedroom drawers, quicker folding sessions because it’s all centralized. But the habit still has to happen.

Think of it like having a well-stocked kitchen: it makes cooking faster and more enjoyable, but you still have to chop the veggies and turn on the stove.

With that tip out of the way, let’s move into the picture tour. I’ll walk you through each part of this space and show how it supports that daily “do the laundry” rhythm for our big crew.

Our Washer and Dryer

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Joyful Fellowship: Special Memories of Events at and Around Missionary Acres

At Missionary Acres, community is at the heart of everything we do. Living among retired missionaries, pastors, and career Christian workers, our large family has been blessed to witness and participate in the fellowship that the Missionary Acres Residents Association (MARA) works so hard to create.

Almost every month, MARA organizes events that bring residents, staff, and volunteers together to share laughter, stories, and faith. These gatherings, ranging from lively barbecues to reflective outings, strengthen our bonds and remind us of God’s faithfulness in building this unique community.

Here are some of our favorite moments from these special events:

4th of July BBQ and Fireworks: A Star-Spangled Celebration

Julia shared this great craft project at the 4th of July picnic in 2025!

The 4th of July BBQ is a beloved tradition at Missionary Acres, and it’s one our family looks forward to every year. MARA organizes a potluck where residents bring their favorite side dishes, filling tables with everything from homemade pies to classic Midwest casseroles.

Someone mans the smoker (big shoutout to Ken and Ed!) and creates delicious meat for the main course. We’ve had so many different types of delicious BBQ over the years! And there’s always hot dogs for the kids.

Our daughter Ellie made this festive chip dip side dish to take to the picnic!

The evening ends with a fireworks display that lights up the Ozarks sky, drawing “oohs” and “aahs” from kids and adults alike. This event gives us a chance to thank God for the freedom to serve Him and the community He’s built here.

Senior Olympics: Joyful Competition and Team Spirit

Dwayne was overseeing the dart throwing competition. Jerry and Sandy were getting ready to take aim.

One of the highlights of this past year was the First Annual Missionary Acres Senior Olympics, a spirited event where residents showcase their enthusiasm and energy. From wheelchair races to friendly competitions like dart tosses, the Acres came alive with cheers and encouragement.

Our kids loved joining in, and especially excelled in the puzzle assembly contest! The camaraderie of this evening shone as everyone celebrated each other’s efforts, reflecting the unity described in Psalm 133:1: “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!”

These events at Missionary Acres remind us that serving God doesn’t end with retirement.

Exploring History: A Trip to the Missouri Mines State Historic Site

The guided tour participants (and our host!)

MARA’s off-site outings are always a treat, and one of our favorite destinations this year was the Missouri Mines State Historic Site, just a short drive from Silva. This historic site, located in the heart of the Old Lead Belt, offers a fascinating glimpse into the region’s lead mining history.

The museum, housed in a former powerhouse of the St. Joe Lead Co., features impressive mining machinery and one of the Midwest’s finest mineral collections. During our visit, we had the opportunity to ask questions on the guided tour. It was a perfect blend of education and fellowship, reminding us of God’s provision through the earth’s resources and the stories we share.

Bryan got this great shot of the old mine!

Progressive Dinner: A Feast of Fellowship

Our children, Simon and Brynna, are enjoying appetizers at the Mowen home as part of the progressive dinner.

One of MARA’s most creative events is the progressive dinner, where several homes at Missionary Acres host a different course of a meal. Residents and staff travel from house to house, enjoying salad at one, appetizers at another, the main course at a third, and dessert at a fourth.

This event takes careful planning (and we’re so thankful for those who share their organizational talents in this way!), but the laughter and stories shared over each course make it unforgettable. Last time, our kids were thrilled to help prepare pistachio salad to share at one house! Throughout the evening, we marveled at how the residents’ hospitality reflects the love of Christ.

It’s a night of moving from table to table, much like the early church shared meals in Acts 2:46, and it strengthens the bonds that make Missionary Acres feel like home.

Perry County Christmas Country Church Tour: A Journey of Faith

One of the churches we visited on this tour in 2023 had a camel (and some other animals!) That was a favorite memory for sure!

The Christmas season is always busy, but one annual event we enjoy is the Perry County Christmas Country Church Tour. This self-guided tour, held in December, invites our residents to visit dozens of century-old churches across Southeast Missouri. Each church offers unique experiences: some glow with candlelight in simple sanctuaries, while others awe with stunning architecture.

Several folks from the Acres caravan from church to church, where we enjoy Christmas music, refreshments, and the warmth of shared faith. It’s always such a blessing to learn more about each church we visit and take in some of the remarkable history in this area!

These events, planned with care by MARA and other staff members, do more than fill a calendar. Whether we’re laughing during the Senior Olympics, praying over a shared meal, or exploring Missouri’s history and churches, we’re reminded of God’s call to community. For our family, these moments are a chance to learn from the wisdom of retired missionaries, teach our children the value of service, and grow in faith together.

We invite you to pray for MARA as they continue planning these events, and for the residents who pour their hearts into making Missionary Acres a place of fellowship.

To stay updated on our events and ministry, sign up for our prayer letters. Thank you for partnering with us in celebrating the community God has built here!

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Removed “weave us together as a family in Christ”
Softened “a lifelong journey of joy and fellowship” to a simpler close on the Senior Olympics section
Changed “This event is a logistical marvel” to “This event takes careful planning”
Dropped the “Why These Events Matter” header and folded the content into a natural closing paragraph
Reduced em-dashes significantly (replaced several with commas, colons, or rephrased sentences)

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Can you suggest a different final header to separate the conclusion from the Christmas tour?

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Looking Back with Thankfulness
Grateful for These Gatherings
What These Moments Mean to Us
A Word of Thanks
Continuing in Fellowship

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“the vibrant energy of teen volunteer groups”
“The Ripple Effect of Teen Volunteers” (heading)
“embody God’s love in action,” “enthusiasm is contagious”
“a powerful testimony to the next generation’s commitment”
“Join the Joy: Volunteer or Support” heading

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Young Hearts, Big Impact: Teen Work Groups Are a Blessing at Missionary Acres

At Missionary Acres, the summer sun brings more than warmth. It brings the energy of teen volunteer groups whose faith and willingness to serve brighten our community.

These young people, alongside their dedicated adult leaders, have poured their hearts into serving our residents. Their work leaves a lasting mark on our grounds and on the people who live here. Their contributions remind us of the power of selfless service and the joy of coming together for a greater purpose.

A Summer of Service

A teen group from Goshen, Indiana, helped rebuild this flower bed by the flagpole this summer. Once it was complete, a couple of residents took care of the weeding and planting.

This summer, teen work groups tackled a variety of projects with real energy. From sprucing up our facilities to lending a hand to residents, their efforts have been a blessing. Here’s a glimpse of what they’ve accomplished in 2025:

Pressure washing buildings and homes, restoring a fresh, clean look to our community.
Taking down a broken shed, opening up a backyard.
Knocking down tall grass and weeds with weed eaters, taming overgrown areas.
Staining decks, protecting outdoor spaces for residents to enjoy.
Building stairs for an enclosed porch, improving accessibility and safety.
Repairing decks and installing new rails, making our spaces more secure and welcoming.
Removing broken siding and installing new siding, giving a home a renewed appearance.
Rebuilding the raised flower bed by the flagpole, helping beautify the property.

Each swing of a hammer, each stroke of a paintbrush, and each smile shared during these tasks show the love and dedication these teens bring to Missionary Acres. Their work improves our facilities and lifts the spirits of everyone around them.

Building Connections Through Community

A teen group and the Missionary Acres Family are fellowshipping together in the on-site church’s basement.

At Missionary Acres, we believe that service goes beyond physical tasks. It’s also about building relationships and growing a sense of community. To support our teen volunteer groups, we offer comfortable guest housing so groups can stay on-site and fully take part in the experience. This makes travel easier and creates more chances for meaningful interactions between teens and our residents.

We encourage these connections through shared activities. This summer, for example, one teen group joined residents for an ice cream social. Each teen paired with a resident to interview one another and then introduce their partner to the group. The stories and laughter created lasting bonds. Other highlights included a taco dinner and a holiday picnic that filled our grounds with joy.

For groups interested in deeper engagement, we can also arrange for a couple of residents to join them for lunch each day. Residents share insights about their fields of service and inspire the teens with their stories of faith and dedication.

These interactions are an important part of the Missionary Acres experience. Teens learn from the wisdom and experiences of our residents, while residents are encouraged by the energy and fresh perspectives of the younger generation.

A Lasting Blessing

These young volunteers don’t just complete tasks. They show God’s love through their work. Their enthusiasm spreads, encouraging residents, staff, and other volunteers. The laughter, teamwork, and faith they share strengthen our community and remind us of the joy that comes from giving.

As we look forward to welcoming more teen groups next summer, we’re excited to see how their servant hearts will continue to bless Missionary Acres. Their willingness to serve is a clear picture of the next generation’s commitment to faith and community.

How You Can Help

We invite you to be part of this work at Missionary Acres. Your time, skills, or support can help us keep it going.

Volunteer: Bring your youth group or family to Missionary Acres for a day or week of service. Stay in our guest housing and join us for community activities such as ice cream socials or shared lunches with residents. Read this post to learn more about volunteering at Missionary Acres.
Support: Consider donating to help fund tools, materials, and resources for our volunteer projects. Every contribution helps us sustain the impact of these teen groups and the residents here at the Acres. You can see some items we’re raising funds for on the Missionary Acres website here.

Together, we can continue to grow this ministry and bless even more retired pastors, missionaries, and career Christian workers.

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Softened “the vibrant energy of teen volunteer groups”
Changed “The Ripple Effect of Teen Volunteers” → “A Lasting Blessing”
Reworked “embody God’s love in action,” “enthusiasm is contagious,” and “a powerful testimony to the next generation’s commitment”
Changed “Join the Joy: Volunteer or Support” → “How You Can Help”
Cut back heavily on em-dashes and a few other polished phrases that felt AI-like

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“I find myself reflecting on how our large family’s holiday traditions have evolved”
“turning our kitchen into a bustling hub of flour-dusted fun”

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Christmas with 12 Kids: A Peek at Our Favorite Family Traditions

As we approach another Christmas season here at Missionary Acres, I’ve been thinking about how our family’s holiday traditions have changed since we moved away from our extended family in Washington State.

Answering God’s call to serve Him full-time in Southeast Missouri meant saying goodbye to some of the extended-family gatherings we once cherished. At the same time, it has given us the chance to create new ways to make the day special, intentional, and full of joy. With 12 kids—Jayme, Owen, Jeffrey, Ellie, Sydney, Simon, Brynna, Bryson, Tyler, Ezra, Sally, and Marcus—Christmas is always an adventure!

Today, I want to share a glimpse into our Tanner family Christmas traditions, both the ones we’ve carried over and the new ones we’ve embraced.

Christmas Eve: New Pajamas, Church, and a Cozy Hot Cocoa Bar

Our Christmas celebration actually begins the night before Christmas. My mom and stepdad faithfully send each child new pajamas every year, and they’re opened after the Christmas Eve service at church.

Once the kids are in their pajamas, we enjoy a simple treat together before singing a song and heading to bed. This year, I set out a hot cocoa bar with different toppings they could add to their mug of cocoa. I also set out some simple shortbread cookies and zucchini bread we’d been given.

It’s the perfect cozy way to wind down before the big day ahead.

Christmas Morning: Unwrapping the Bible and Hearing the Christmas Story

One of our favorite December traditions is our Christmas book countdown. We wrap 24 Christmas books, and each day leading up to the 25th, one of the kids unwraps and we read a new story together.

On Christmas morning, the very last “book” under the tree is the Bible itself. Before any gifts are opened, my husband, Bryan, unwraps that present and reads the Christmas story aloud to all of us. This quiet moment helps center our hearts on the true reason we celebrate—Jesus, the greatest gift of all.

Breakfast, Stockings, and Discovering “Your” Wrapping Paper

Our Christmas morning begins with everyone gathered around the table to open stockings. Each child gets one small gift inside, wrapped in a special paper.

Speaking of wrapping paper—that’s another fun tradition! Every year, I buy enough different patterns so each kid has their own unique one. I don’t label the gifts with names; instead, my husband and I are the only ones who know which paper belongs to whom.

When the children open their stocking gift, they discover their special paper for the day, adding an element of mystery and excitement as they spot “their” packages under the tree.

We always enjoy homemade cinnamon rolls for breakfast—warm, gooey, and the perfect fuel for the adventures ahead. It’s a simple ritual that sets a joyful tone.

The Heart of Our Gift-Giving: Three Special Gifts

One tradition that’s remained steadfast, even after our move, is giving each child just three meaningful gifts. This approach keeps things simple and focused, especially in our missionary lifestyle where “more” isn’t always feasible.

Every year, each of our kids receives:

A gold gift: Something they really want, like a toy or LEGO set that’s been on their wishlist.
A silver gift: Something to encourage family time together, such as a new board game or puzzle.
A red gift: Something that points them to Jesus, like a Bible, a devotional book, or a faith-based resource.

This structure helps us emphasize quality over quantity and is a beautiful way to mirror the gifts of the wise men while teaching our children about gratitude and purpose. It also makes shopping much simpler and helps us stick to the budget.

Of course, the kids are also often blessed with gifts from extended family and others. For example, this year, one of our supporting churches generously bought presents for everyone—what an incredible blessing! These extras get opened throughout the day, and we don’t usually make the kids “work” for them with a game; they’re just pure surprises to enjoy.

Spreading Out the Fun with New Adventures

Since we no longer spend the bulk of the day with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, we’ve introduced creative activities to stretch out the excitement and build more family bonding time.

Instead of ripping through all the gifts at once, the kids now “earn” each set by solving puzzles or completing homemade escape-room-style challenges. It’s turned Christmas morning into a full-day event filled with laughter, teamwork, and a bit of friendly competition!

For example, this year:

To unlock their gold gifts (hidden in our storage room), they’ll have to complete an 80-piece Lego build of a simple nativity scene. But here’s the twist—the pieces are individually wrapped and hidden around the house! They’ll hunt them down, unwrap them, and assemble the set to earn the key.
For the silver gifts, stashed away in our trailer, they’ll embark on a scavenger hunt around Missionary Acres. Three clues hidden on the property will reveal the code to a combination lock.
To “unlock” the red gifts, they’ll hunt through the Bible for specific letters that spell out the gifts’ locations. Here it is, you can see if you can figure out where the gifts are.

And if you’re looking for creative games to play, here are some other things they’ve done:

Pieced together a 300-piece puzzle, then flipped it over to find a secret message written on the back that led to their gifts.
Completed a Nativity-themed escape room that I bought from Etsy.
Answered Christmas-themed trivia questions.
Played Christmas charades

These activities not only spread out the fun but also help us create lasting memories as we cheer each other on and work as a team.

To keep things fair and add even more fun, we don’t let everyone dive into their gifts at once when a set is unlocked. Instead, we establish a draw order for opening—one child at a time, oldest to youngest or however the activity decides.

This year, we’re mixing it up with different ways to determine the order of each gift set: by birthday day (day of the month, from earliest to latest), hunting for hidden Post-it notes with a number on them, answering Christmas trivia questions, and even a rock-paper-scissors tournament. Watching them cheer each other on while they wait their turn makes the joy last even longer!

By taking turns opening gifts, we all get to see the joy and excitement each gift brings to the recipient. It’s one of my favorite parts!

Secret Sibling Gift Exchange

Another highlight of the day is our Secret Sibling tradition. A few months before Christmas, the children draw names and become someone’s “secret sibling.” With a $10 budget, each one shops for (or makes) a thoughtful gift for their drawn sibling.

The reveal happens sometime during the day—usually after a challenge or two—and it’s always sweet to watch them exchange gifts they picked out especially for one another. It teaches generosity, thoughtfulness, and the joy of giving.

Family Meals and Sweet Treats

Food is a big part of our celebrations, and the kids love pitching in. For lunch, we feast on ham, scalloped potatoes, fresh potato rolls, and a variety of desserts.

Leading up to Christmas, the children help bake batches of cookies and other goodies. The kitchen fills with flour, mixing bowls, and happy chaos as everyone joins in. It’s a great way to involve everyone and teach them about serving one another.

A Day Full of Joy and Jesus

From Christmas Eve cocoa to the final slice of pie on Christmas night, our traditions—old and new—help us savor time together as a family of 14 on the mission field. They remind us that Christmas isn’t about grand gatherings or piles of presents; it’s about celebrating Emmanuel, God with us, right where He has placed us.

Thank you for being part of our journey through prayer and support. From all of us at Missionary Acres, we wish you a very Merry Christmas filled with the peace and joy of Christ!

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“I find myself reflecting on how our large family’s holiday traditions have evolved…” → “I’ve been thinking about how our family’s holiday traditions have changed…”
“turning our kitchen into a bustling hub of flour-dusted fun” → “The kitchen fills with flour, mixing bowls, and happy chaos as everyone joins in.”
A few other small adjustments to reduce overly reflective or polished phrasing while keeping the voice natural.

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“we looked at each other… ‘That’s brilliant'”
“the collective sigh of relief from every busy parent who’s ever lived”
“it’s been nothing short of a game-changer” (used twice)
Rhetorical-question section headers + a bolted-on “Family Closet FAQs” block
“Final Thoughts: From Laundry Chaos to Calm” closer
“The magic isn’t the square footage; it’s centralizing laundry flow…”

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The Family Closet That Transformed Our Laundry Management

Then came our move to Missionary Acres.

We stood in the doorway, looked at each other again, and this time the words were different: “We can finally do this.”

And we did.

This space has made a real difference in how we manage laundry for our large family.

A Quick Overview of Our Family Closet

If you stand in the doorway and look in, this is what our family closet looks like right now—and honestly, it’s not magazine-perfect, and that’s exactly why it works so well for us.

A few things to note about this space:

It’s fully unfinished (concrete floors, visible pipes, open ceiling joists)—and we love it that way. No worries about spills, tracked-in dirt, or little hands making “improvements.”
It’s a real working space, which means it’s rarely picture-perfect clean. There’s usually a load in the dryer, a few items waiting to be folded, or a stray sock on the floor—and that’s okay. It gets the job done.
It has a door that shuts completely, which has been a lifesaver for keeping curious toddlers out when we’re not supervising.

My Number 1 Laundry Management Tip

Before we zoom in on the details of our family closet, I have to share my single most important tip for keeping laundry manageable—especially with a family of 14.

This one has held true in every home we’ve lived in, from tiny setups to this unfinished basement room. It doesn’t require special tools, perfect organization, or even a dedicated family closet.

Ready? Here it is:

Do the laundry.

Seriously—that’s it!

No beautiful hanging rods, no hamper system, no dedicated space will ever eliminate this basic step. Laundry only stays under control when you actually do it consistently.

Think of it like having a well-stocked kitchen: it makes cooking faster and more enjoyable, but you still have to chop the veggies and turn on the stove.

With that tip out of the way, let’s move into the picture tour. I’ll walk you through each part of this space and show how it supports that daily “do the laundry” rhythm for our big crew.

Our Washer and Dryer

Without this powerful duo, our laundry would just pile up. We have a large-capacity set that can handle decent-sized loads.

We picked a washer without an agitator, so we can wash larger blankets and sleeping bags. This one also has a delay feature, which is handy for nighttime. I often put laundry in the machine on delay before I go to bed, and wake up in the morning to clean clothes that haven’t started to stink because they sat in the machine for too long.

In front of the machines, I have the cutest laundry room rug. It says, “Laundry Room Wash ~ Dry ~ Fold ~ Repeat,” which is my mantra for tackling laundry!

Our Laundry Folding Station

This former workbench has become a great place to fold laundry. In the drawer, we keep a few clothes folding boards (we prefer the BoxLegend brand!) These allow younger kids to successfully fold clothes.

The bottom shelf holds our laundry detergent, stain remover, bleach, and laundry sanitizer. It’s nice to have a home for everything!

The Triple Hamper

When we moved to Missouri, we bought this triple hamper to help keep the laundry room organized. My teen daughter added a label for each bag. We have one for towels and sheets, one for boys, and one for girls. Though it’s not always adhered to perfectly, this system makes it easier to put things away after they’ve been washed.

It’s also nice to be able to tell a few of the boys (or girls), go get your laundry out of the dryer, fold it, and put it away. Then they don’t have to sort everyone’s clothes.

Clothes Hanging Racks

Since our laundry room doesn’t have much dresser drawer space, we hang a lot of clothes. We purchased a double garment-hanging rack from Walmart (similar to this one on Amazon). It’s held up well.

This rack has our preteens’ clothes on the taller rack in the back, and the younger kids’ clothes in the front.

My husband also hung a metal pipe from the floor joists to hang the older kids’ clothes. Each of them has a section for their clothes, so they always know where to look. Having them this high means the younger kids can’t play dress up with their siblings’ clothes, which my teens appreciate!

Dresser Space

Around the room, we have several dressers (and a bookcase) for folded clothes. Each kid gets two drawers, and one is for mismatched socks.

One of our teens used our label maker to label everything, so everyone who folds laundry can put it away correctly. This has helped tremendously!

We also have a rack for hats, a box for suspenders and bowties, and hooks on the wall for larger items. You can also see the ironing board tucked behind the door. If anyone wants to iron something, they simply pull out the iron and get to work.

Laundry Sink and “Dirty” Basket

When you have a child with special needs and potty-training toddlers, you know that some clothes are going to end up extra smelly. Unfortunately, a few of these items have ended up in the regular clothes hamper.

That was a mistake! The whole load had to be washed and rewashed several times to get the smell out.

Now, we use the sink for a quick rinse and put all of these extra “dirty” clothes in the basket by the door. This one took some training, but it works well now.

Tip: For these types of clothes, I always add a capful of Lysol Laundry Sanitizer to the load. It helps cut the smell quite a bit. We also wash these clothes in warmer water and do extra rinses. Then, before we transfer the clothes to the dryer, they have to pass the sniff test…

You may notice the wall behind the basket has a strip of unpainted blocks. This was where the water tank was when we moved in. However, since we wanted two water tanks, my husband replumbed them into the storage room next door.

Garbage Can for Lint and Clothes Beyond Repair

This one is pretty self-explanatory. We empty it once a week.

Drying Rack

Our family has many graphic t-shirts. While they’re cute and comfy, they don’t hold up well when run through the dryer.

Thus, since we had space in this room, we bought a simple drying rack. When we switch laundry into the dryer, we pull out any graphic tees and hang them here to dry. Since we have a concrete floor, it works perfectly.

Sewing Machine

Our sixteen-year-old daughter enjoys sewing and often repairs torn clothes for the family. She keeps her machine on a built-in table that runs along the back wall. She also keeps a bag of supplies on top of the dresser next to it.

Not Pictured Elements of Our Large Family Closet

I didn’t get pictures of everything, so here are a few more things we keep in this room.

A Donation Box

We get a lot of hand-me-downs (which are a huge blessing!) But not everything is a great fit. If we have clothes we won’t be using, we put them in the donation box, and when it’s full, we take it to donate.

Winter Clothes Storage

Underneath the built-in table where the sewing machine is, we have boxes for winter clothes. These keep our gloves/hats/scarves/etc. out of the way when they’re not being used. We keep snowpants and coats on a hanging rack in our garage.

Off-Size Storage

Right off of this room is another unfinished room in the basement, which we use for storage. There, we keep clothes that we want to keep that are either too big or too small for the kids. This allows us to minimize what is actually in their drawers and hanging, which has helped keep the mess (and the frustration) to a minimum.

A Few Common Questions

Here are a few questions we’ve been asked about our family closet.

Do you keep everyone’s clothes in the family closet? Nope! Though we could. For us, it works better for Bryan and me to keep our clothes in our room. We also keep many of our oldest son’s clothes in his room, as he goes through several outfits a day due to incontinence.

What about older kids or teens—do they actually use it? Yes, and it works well. Our bigger kids (especially the middles and older ones) know exactly where everything is, so they can grab what they need quickly in the mornings or after activities. We have the higher hanging rod dedicated to their sizes, and they help with their own put-aways. It teaches responsibility without the frustration of scattered dressers.

Does everything really stay organized, or does it get chaotic? Our family closet stays functional—not always showroom tidy. With fourteen people, there’s usually a basket waiting to be folded or a few items out of place, but because everything has a clear spot (hampers for dirties, rods for hang-ups, the donation basket for outgrown stuff), chaos doesn’t build up like it used to. The unfinished-basement vibe helps, too—no pressure to keep it pristine. We just do the laundry consistently (remember my #1 tip?), and the space supports that habit.

I wanted to write this blog post for a while, but since the room was so messy, I put it off. Then, our kids surprised us recently by cleaning it and organizing everything, so I grabbed some pictures while it looked great.

Would this work if we don’t have a basement or extra room? Absolutely—adapt it to what you have. We’ve heard of families using a laundry nook, spare bedroom closet, or even part of a hallway. The key isn’t the square footage; it’s centralizing the laundry flow and committing to the routine. Start small: combine kids’ clothes in one area first, then expand if it clicks.

Since we have such a large family, we needed a little more space for our shared clothing area, but most families don’t have quite as many children.

If you have more questions about our setup (or want tips for your own family size/situation), drop them in the comments! We’re still new to the family closet setup, but this system has made things so much easier.

Closing Thoughts

If you’re still reading, thank you. Laundry stories aren’t exactly glamorous, but if you’ve ever felt buried under baskets of clean (or dirty) clothes, I hope this glimpse into our family closet offers some practical suggestions.

We didn’t renovate our laundry room into something glossy or Instagram-ready. We just claimed the unfinished space, added (or repurposed) practical pieces such as the hanging rods at kid-friendly heights, that big folding table, and the donation basket, and committed to using it daily.

And yes, the real difference isn’t the room itself—it’s still the simple habit of doing the laundry consistently. But having everything centralized has made that habit feel almost effortless: mornings are calmer because clothes are right there and easy to grab, put-aways happen in minutes instead of hours, potty-training mishaps get handled without drama, and outgrown items actually make it to donation instead of lingering in piles.

For our crew of fourteen, this family closet has brought less chaos and more peace—one small win that ripples through the whole day.

Thanks for joining me on this little tour! If you’ve tried a family closet (or something similar), or if this sparks an idea for your own home, I’d love to hear about it in the comments.

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